Well, I spoke too soon about never having seen our spidey. Today we were tooling along about 50mph and I looked out and there she was! Clinging for dear life to one small strand of silk and desperately trying to make it home. I held my breath as she struggled up the strand that was whipping in the wind. Success! She made to the edge of the mirror, paused to catch her breath, and scurried back into her home! So she is still with us, and I think I shall call her Morada!
And in her honor, I am leaving a very tasty key lime pie in the fridge. Enjoy!